
About ASH Divorce Coaching
Walking You Through the High-Conflict Minefield
ASH Divorce Coaching was founded with a simple yet powerful mission: to provide strategic, expert guidance to individuals navigating the complex journey of high-conflict divorce. Just as the ash tree is known for its resilience and ability to thrive in challenging conditions, we believe that you have the inner strength to overcome the difficulties of divorce and emerge stronger.
Our name, ASH, not only reflects the resilience of the ash tree but also stands for Advocacy, Strategy, and Hope - the core principles that guide our approach to divorce coaching.


Meet Ansle
Hi, I’m Ansle (pronounced Ansley), and I’m also ASH, my initials. I lived in a high conflict marraige for over 30 years. I have walked on all the eggshells and harbored irrational optimism for decades. I have learned the strategies to succeed with an oppositional spouse. I am a CDC Certified Divorce Coach and Certified High Conflict Divorce Coach.
I can help you
• Stand up for yourself
• Prepare to be a confident member of your own divorce team
• Get and stay organized
• Manage your emotions
• Communicate with a difficult or abusive spouse
• Create a documentation system that works for you
• Communicate with your attorney more efficiently and effectively
• Save money
Why ASH Divorce Coaching?
Divorce will challenge you to find your greatest and perhaps yet unknown strength. The ash tree is unique in the world because of its strength and flexibility. Its wood has been used for centuries to make wagon wheels and chariot axels because it can withstand tremendous weight. Ash trees have also been used to make bows to fling arrows because the wood will bend but not break. And last, ash is the best firewood because it burns long without being consumed by the fire and emits the greatest heat. You will need all these attributes during your divorce and I am here to help you find your own strength in each of these areas.
Strength
We help you discover and cultivate your inner resilience in the face of conflict.
Flexibility
We guide you in adapting to new circumstances with grace.
Endurance
We support you in withstanding the pressures of a contentious divorce process.
Transformation
We assist you in using this challenging time as an opportunity for personal growth.
